|Connor is in the back, in glasses, his face hidden
- The teens carry boxes while participants select their items, and then carry the boxes (and 50 pound bags of potatoes!) out to load into the cars.
- The 8- and 10-year-olds can man a station, letting people know that they can have one cabbage, or that they can get 2 apples per family member, or whatever. They smile and give suggestions as to just what one can do with sweet potatoes. Or they try to convince people to get another bag of potatoes.
- I fit in wherever I'm needed.
|That's me, carrying *something* outside for distribution
At times, I've been an "end of the day" customer... so I let other families shop first, and I only go through towards the end, getting a few things here and there, and being totally okay if they ran out of oranges before I get there.
Right now, I'm not anywhere near so noble.
All of that has me thinking about food pantries, and asking for help, and the sanctimonious garbage I often read online. You know, people complaining because someone going through a food pantry has a smart phone. Or their kid is playing on a Kindle Fire. Or they have nice clothes. Or a nice car. They don't deserve it. You've seen those posts and rants, I'm sure.
Fortunately, I've never encountered that personally.
I have volunteered at a number of different pantries. I have used services of a number of pantries as well. And one thing that has always been emphasized is that we have to take people at face value. If they say they need food, then they need food. We can't decide they do or do not based on what they are wearing, what they are carrying, or what they are driving.
That probably means that we've given food to people who don't truly "need" it. And when you are seeing so many people who really, really need food, it is tough to accept that some of the food is going to "the wrong people."
But we've also given food to hundreds and hundreds of people who did. And that is what is important.
Jesus told us to feed the hungry. And He did too. When I read in the Bible about multiplying the loaves and fishes, I don't see Him instructing the disciples to make people prove they really need food before grudgingly offering them fish and bread. I don't see Him instructing the disciples to not give food to anyone whose robes are "too nice" nor to skip anyone who arrived via donkey instead of on foot.
He tells them to feed His sheep.
Just how would you define "need" anyway? Some people would look at my family and say we don't "need" food.
- We have a new car.
- We own things like iPads and Kindle Fires. Plural.
- We are employed.
- I can show up, having some of the kids dressed in spendy clothing.
- Or people spot me at Starbucks, enjoying an outrageously expensive Salted Caramel Mocha.
The car was purchased after a serious look at fuel economy, and we spend less on car payment, insurance and gas than we did on just gas for my husband to drive to and from work.
We've used birthday money, Christmas money, and serious sales to purchase the technology, and we use it extensively for school, not just to play Angry Birds.
I tend to be given Starbucks gift cards as thank you's, birthday gifts, or just because gifts. And yes, I could go in and purchase scones or something that has some nutritive value (and I have) but usually I use that to treat myself. Or to have a teacher-student conference with one of my kids.
|Waiting for the truck
At the moment, the big thing driving our "need" for food is medical bills. All of a sudden, we have roughly $8,000 in medical bills. Everyone wants that paid now, or in generous installments, and just one of those payments eats up 2/3 of our monthly grocery budget. We have three big medical payments to make (the ER, the ambulance, the hospital) and a lot of little ones too. To meet those obligations, we have to eliminate all discretionary spending, eliminate our grocery budget, and cut our electricity use in half. For the next year. And that still puts us a couple hundred dollars a month short.
We can't do that.
The good news is that we can drastically cut our grocery bill. With two trips to the food pantry each month (the max allowed) and the mobile food truck, we'll have fresh produce (especially potatoes), some dairy, some meat, some canned goods, some snacks, and lots and lots of "need to use immediately" breads and desserts.
I have stored up a lot. Our freezer is completely full. My mama is a war baby. She taught me to prepare for a rainy day.
I've survived before, feeding the family on a grocery budget as low as $35 a month.
Of course, I didn't have three teen boys then.
The point of this post though, isn't to whine about how rough I have it. I don't. This is a tight spot, unplanned, but I'm not seriously concerned about a foreclosure. And pantry or not, I know I can feed my family rice and beans for MONTHS, so it isn't like we'll starve.
But the food pantry makes it easier.