A few friends are doing a couple of "looking back" and "looking forward" posts today and tomorrow, and I decided I ought to join in. This is part of a group where we are encouraging each other to "keep it real" -- so I'm not planning to sugarcoat things in my lookback at 2013.
Like the title suggests, in November I became the mom of three teen boys. Wow, just wow. It doesn't seem possible, you know? My big guys are now 16, 15 and 13, and time has sure flown by.
That was hardly the most dramatic or important thing to happen in 2013 though.
We had a camping trip planned, though, that would mean Connor, Richard, Trina and myself would be gone for a Sunday. William volunteered to run stuff, and Dale volunteered to get him there for that.
Dale found out that he really loved this church, and he has missed ONE Sunday since then (when he was in Minnesota). He's been doing all kinds of stuff with streaming the services, and working with the audio and video equipment. It is amazing.
Here is the "keeping it real" part... I'd love to tell you that I've been praying for him to really take hold of his faith for the past 20+ years. Because a good wife should do that. I'd love to tell you I've been praying for our family to attend church together for the past 16+ years. Because a good wife & mom should do that.
But I had given up on it long ago.
And God blessed me, and blessed the kids, despite my lack of hope and faith.
I'd love to say, "if it can happen to me, it can happen to you" as I know there are lots and lots of others out there who would dearly love to be attending church as a family. But really, we didn't have one of those truly tough cases. He wasn't anti-God or anti-Christian. Just anti-church.
Trina has had a wonderful time as an American Heritage Girl. So much so that I became a leader. So I have roughly 13 2nd grade girls that I am now "leading" along with two other fabulous moms.
I've gotten involved with the food pantry out here, which really kept me busy in December! We are in such a depressed area, and there are so many people hurting. It is nice to be able to make a bit of a difference. I'm supposed to be running the numbers, and I haven't, but I'm pretty sure we served over 100 different families this month, which would represent something around 500 people. That is HUGE in this rural community.
Then there is homeschooling, which I think will be a bigger topic for my post tomorrow. You know, looking forward to 2014. The post where I touch on how things need to change, and I need to be more consistent, and maybe I ought to get to bed before 1:00 once in awhile. Trying to stay real again. I've dropped the ball so many times this year, I'm no longer quite sure where it is. Life has to get in focus in 2014. It just has to.
So, that's my "Remembering the Real 2013" post. You can go read how some of my friends summed up 2013 too. If you visit, tell them I said "hi!"
2013 - a messy but blessed year by April E. @ ElCloud Homeschool: Busy Minds, Busy Hands, Busy Feet
2013: A Look Back by Leah @ As We Walk Along the Road
Five Revelations From 2013 by Clara @ A Slice Of Homeschool Pie
2013 is Almost Gone by Kristen @ Sunrise to Sunset
2013- A Reflection on our Year by Jennifer @ Conversaving
Where Did 2013 Go? by Joelle @ Homeschooling for His Glory
Embracing the Bright, Shining Moments and Growing in Our Struggles by Susan @ Homeschooling Hearts & Minds
Saying Goodbye to 2013 by Tess @ Circling Through This Life
Looking Back Over 2013 Adventures In Homesteading & Homeschooling by Kim @Homestead Acres
2013 ~ The Good, The Bad, And The Beautiful by Audra Silva @ Simply Audra Marie
Real Moments of 2013 by Cristi @ Through the Calm and Through the Storm
It's a Beautiful Life--2013 Edition by April B. @ Coffee, Cobwebs, and Curriculum
I loved this post! I too, had three teenagers at one time in my house, although as of last Friday, they are now all three in their 20s.
And I love your heart about church and your husband and the struggle to figure it all out. The Holy Spirit knows our heart, even when we are unable to pray any longer. I am so glad He has answered your prayers. My own husband(and honestly, I do as well) really struggles with the politics and religiosity we see in our church, and we get discouraged sometimes. If not for some of the wonderful people, the real heart of our church, we most likely would not attend.
Great post! Happy New Year!
I enjoyed your post - It's neat to look back and reflect on what God did this past year.
Love what you shared here. Very encouraging.
I loved your post, looking back over the year really helps us to gather our thoughts for the year to come.
Blessings and Happy New Year to your family!
I'm about to have two teenagers myself, and it's still hard to believe.
I loved reading this post and seeing how your husband is enjoying church. It's amazing how God does things in His timing even when we've given up thinking it's going to happen.
Thank you for sharing this.
I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one who struggles with not being consistent when it comes to homeschooling. :-)
I enjoyed reading your post.
There's been more than one time in my life that the Lord has answered a prayer that I'd given up on. Thank you for sharing your Real 2013. :)
And have a blessed New year!
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